Life at Peonies House

In Mexico there is a saying that says, "te doy la mano y tu agarras la pata." Which translates to "I give you a hand, and you grab a foot."  Similar to "I give you an inch and you take a foot."  Since I can recall, I have been helping my dear mother with anything that she asks of me. Like any good daughter would. Right?!?!  I do it mostly out of love. Partially because it would be ethically wrong to give my own mother my back. But mostly love. Now let me be clear here. I am very thankful for all she has done for me. I will more than likely continue to do these duties.   But for now, in this moment I will go ahead and pour these thoughts out.  There are times when I just can't help it. But I get very frustrated to have earned this job. When did I apply for this job?  -Personal assistant -Duties can range from making calls to set up doctor appointments. Driving her to said doctor appointments. Driving her to the grocery store. Assisting w...

Today, I sat down and decided to write a list of pros and cons over my relationship with my partner. Between daily struggles and arguments. I wanted to see what was happening here. I'm a visual person. Plus love writing lists. Who doesn't?!?! As I got to the "I feel comfortable" part, I wasn't exactly sure whether I should include it in the pro or con side of the list.  Of course everyone aspires a relationship where they can be comfortable with one another. Speak openly without feeling judgement from your partner. Yet get feedback that can help you make correct decisions, or view things with more perspective. However getting too comfortable also can be a way of letting go. Letting go of yourself. Not putting enough effort in your appearance. Or doing special things to keep the spark alive. Getting comfortable can be farting in front of your partner.  -Gasps The dreadful thought of farting in front of your partner. A simple bodily function that all humans ...

Hello...  I'm Carla, the owner and writer behind the curtains at life at peonies house blog. Peonieshouse is my poshmark closet. Visit me  there  and have a look at my listings. ❤ I am a 29 year old stay at home mom. I have an adorable, wild son. He is my life! He has given my life purpose and lots of gray hairs for almost 5 years. Alongside my son, I share my life with my partner, lover, hubby, father of my child. I'm currently completing my first degree in business and accounting. & trying to decide where my education/career path will lead to next. Peonieshouse started because I needed to stay at home with my son. Yet attempt to hustle, in order for our little family to buy a  house . (Hence the name) -A goal we hope we can accomplish very soon. & a brand that I will be expanding soon as well. So here I am, opening the doors to our "house." Sharing life at peonies house with all of you who are willing to read my thoughts. & share yours wit...